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The Understanding Love Blog

We want more sex, and better sex. It’s a universal desire, driven by ancient brain circuits that drive procreation, and our primitive needs to be held,...

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If narcissism were a disease, it would be considered a pandemic. Our culture not only condones selfishness, but celebrates it as a virtue. Materialism, driven by corporate...

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I was greeted this morning by a love note from my beloved.  He had woken up, watched me sleep, and then wrote an essay about love. ...

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I woke up in bed, opened my eyes, and turned to look at my partner, Carista. She was still sleeping, one arm over her eyes, breathing...

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